Are you struggling with the concept that you might be transgender?
It's ok,I was there once too!
While I had some idea at age 8, some people have no idea until they are an adult:
like 50-80 year old adult. Everyone’s journey is valid.
Here are two videos that might be helpful in guiding your self reflection,
and only YOU know if you are transgender.
Nobody can tell you who you are.
I do recommend getting an lgbt friendly therapist, as that can help you navigate this too.
(look for the doctor/therapist section in this googledoc)
Passing means to be perceived as your gender identity and not your sex assigned at birth.
You can't tell someone is transgender just by looking at them.
Passing as cis-gender (not trans) might help people feel more comfortable and safe,
and relieve dysphoria.
It's not necessary to pass, but it is some trans folks’ goal during transition.
Elders or people over 55 it can be hard to find support for being themselves
Have you been to a voice class here yet? Its not only for feminization, but also masculinization.
Checkout the events tab at the top of the channel list for more info on the next upcoming class.
The voice teachers here are amazing!
Check out Trans Academy recordings of voice classes:
youtube.com/@transacademyvods
Also here's a list for more voice help:
docs.google.com/ - voice training resources
Seattle’s voice lab (ftm & mtf)
seattlevoicelab.com/transgender-voice-exercises/
Not out but want to voice train? reneeyoxon.com/covert-voice-practice
“Voice Tools”- free app to track vocal range and track progress.
*You can also turn off the gendered ranges*
"those who matter don't mind, and those who mind don't matter."
For people in the
US theres a group called “Pflag”
that has LGBT support groups for kids, parents and adults.
I have gone to local meetings (Pongo) and I feel like they were helpful for me.
My chapter also had a parent group for the kids (12-21yo) who attended that met at the same time.
Want to add something here?
Contact Pongo under
worldwidelgbtresources@gmail.com
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Discord (add_gaming)
or
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Disclaimer:
This advice is based on our lived experience, we are not doctors/therapists/lawyers/experts.
Any products/companies are just suggestions.
Please use your own discretion and research with any advice listed.
Always seek the advice of your qualified health care provider regarding any medical questions.